Pooja
Bedi’s
pe spective
o
love
a d
ma iage
has
cha ged
sig ifica tly
with
time.
The
act ess
has
evealed
that
despite
bei g
e gaged
to
Ma eck
Co t acto
fo
eight
yea s,
the
couple
has
o
pla s
to
fo malise
thei
elatio ship
th ough
ma iage.I
a
co ve satio
with
Vickey
Lalwa i,
Pooja
ope ed
up
about
why
she
has
chose
to
emai
e gaged
athe
tha
get
ma ied.
She
ecalled
that
while
she
o ce
subsc ibed
to
the
t aditio al
idea
of
ma iage,
he
pe so al
expe ie ces
have
give
he
a
diffe e t
outlook.
“Today
I’m
i
a
elatio ship
with
Ma eck,
a d
I’ve
bee
e gaged
fo
eight
yea s.
A d
people
ask,
‘Whe
a e
you
getti g
ma ied?,
ve y
excitedly.’
A d
I
say,
I’m
ot
getti g
ma ied,”
she
said.
Pooja
explai ed
that,
fo
he ,
a
e gageme t
al eady
ep ese ts
the
commitme t
that
ma iage
is
supposed
to
sig ify.
“E gageme t
is
whe
a
pe so
puts
a
i g
o
you
fi ge
a d
says,
‘I
wa t
to
be
ma ied
to
you.'”
Which
basically
says,
I
wa t
to
spe d
the
est
of
my
life
with
you
by
my
side,
as
a
compa io ,
as
you
love ,
as
you
husba d,
a d
as
a
fathe
of
you
child e .
The
commitme t
is
e ough.
Afte
the
commitme t
is
the e,
all
you’ e
eally
doi g
is
sig i g
a
piece
of
pape
a d
getti g
the
gove me t
i volved
i
you
affai .
”The
‘Jo
Jeeta
Wohi
Sika da ’
act ess
also
believes
that
stayi g
u ma ied
makes
fi a cial
matte s
co side ably
less
complicated,
especially
si ce
both
she
a d
Ma eck
have
child e
f om
p evious
ma iages.
“It
is
so
much
easie .
I’ve
bee
ma ied,
I’ve
bee
divo ced,
a d
I
have
two
child e .
He’s
bee
ma ied,
he’s
bee
divo ced,
a d
he
has
kids
too.
I
te ms
of
simple
thi gs,
like
i
te ms
of
you
assets,
it’s
so
simple.“My
assets
go
to
my
kids;
his
assets
go
to
his
kids.
I’m
ea i g,
he’s
ea i g,
a d
we’ e
both
i depe de t.
I
do ‘t
eed
him
fo
secu ity’s
sake.
He
does ‘t
eed
me
fo
fi a cial
secu ity,”
she
explai ed.Pooja
fu the
evealed
that
ma iage
was
i itially
pa t
of
thei
pla s,
but
they
eve tually
ealised
that
the
i stitutio
did
ot
alig
with
the
life
they
wa ted
to
build
togethe .
“The
i te tio
was
to
get
ma ied,
a d
the
eality
of
what
ma iage
actually
looks
like
to
us.
It
did ‘t
fit
ou
visio
fo
what
we
wa t
i
life,
i
te ms
of
eve ythi g.
Would
you
choose
to
emai
e gaged
athe
tha
get
ma ied?
3k+
use s
sha ed
opi io
today
5k+
use s
al eady
voted
today
3k+
use s
sha ed
opi io
today
Sha e
Opi io
“I
do ‘t
wa t
to
be
co t acted
to
somebody.
I’ve
bee
the e,
do e
that.
I
believe
eve yo e
should
be
ma ied.
I
thi k
ma iage
is
a
wo de ful
space,
a d
it’s
just
that
I’ve
bee
the e,
do e
that.
I
do ‘t
see
the
eed
to
do
that.”Fo
Pooja,
thei
elatio ship
is
defi ed
by
choice
a d
commitme t
athe
tha
a
legal
co t act.
She
said,
“Ou
families
love
each
othe ;
my
kids
love
him.
I
love
his
family.
So
fo
me,
we
a e
as
good
as
togethe
fo eve ,”
she
sha ed.Pooja
a d
Ma eck
had
bee
i
a
committed
elatio ship
fo
seve al
yea s
befo e
getti g
e gaged
i
2019.
The
act ess
was
p eviously
ma ied
to
Fa ha
Fu itu ewala,
with
whom
she
sha es
two
child e ,
Alaya
F
a d
Oma
Fu itu ewalla.
The
couple
divo ced
i
2003.
