Is there a formula to entering Hindi cinema, or is it a mix of timing, talent, and sheer survival? In this ETimes exclusive, director-producer Nivedita Basu, actor-producer Parvin Dabas, and emerging actor Ruchi Gujjar break down the myths, realities, and emotional costs of finding a foothold in Bollywood.
There is no single door into Bollywood — only systems you enter
For most outsiders, “getting into Bollywood” is imagined as a dramatic moment — a debut film, a launch, a godfather’s call. But for those who have actually built careers inside the industry, entry is far more process-driven.Director and producer Nivedita Basu says her first real step into Bollywood wasn’t a launch, but an internal transition. Already working with Balaji Telefilms, she found herself absorbing cinema from within the ecosystem.“My first real step into Bollywood wasn’t a debut moment—it was process-driven. I was already working with Balaji Telefilms, and I was fortunate that Balaji also had an extended film production arm. That exposure allowed me to understand film production from within the system, not from the outside looking in.”The moment she truly felt embedded, she says, was when she moved into direction and worked as an Associate Director on Zilla Ghaziabad. “Being on a film set, handling real responsibilities, understanding scale, pressure, and execution—that’s when I knew I wasn’t just associated with cinema anymore, I was part of the filmmaking machinery.”Actor Parvin Dabas echoes this sentiment from an actor’s perspective. For him, the feeling of being “in the system” arrived on a large, high-stakes set.“The first time I felt I was in the system was when I was shooting for Dillagi, which Mr. Sunny Deol was directing… I was playing the main negative, so it was really a good big step into the world of Bollywood.”Meanwhile, emerging actor Ruchi Gujjar offers a starkly different definition — one rooted not in scale, but in repetition.“My first real step was coming to Mumbai and registering for auditions. Standing in long lines, giving small screen tests, meeting casting assistants — that’s when I felt I had entered the system. Not when I got fame, but when I started trying every day.”
Rejection is not an exception — it is the curriculum
If entry is gradual, rejection is constant. And how one interprets rejection often determines survival.Nivedita Basu says she never emotionally parked herself waiting for one opportunity to happen.“I didn’t really give up—I evolved. I’ve never had the temperament to sit and wait endlessly for one project… So instead of waiting, I branched out.”From television to OTT, she kept herself in motion, even while experiencing long pauses.“I have waited too. I’ve waited two years, sometimes even three years, with very credible names attached. And sometimes, despite everything being right, projects just don’t happen. That’s the reality of this industry.”For her, emotional survival came from adaptability.“I’ve always believed that while I may not have been a master of just one game, I’ve played many games well. For me, survival came from movement.”Parvin Dabas, on the other hand, refuses to frame the journey as rejection at all.“I’ve never looked at anything as a rejection phase because I feel everything comes to you at the right time and also you’re not meant for everything.”He believes timing and suitability matter more than personal disappointment.“I think certain people are suitable for something. Rejection is a very personal thing, and I feel that, especially in the beginning somebody else may have been more appropriate for it. And, that’s how it is. So I never look at it as a rejection but not being suitable and the things for which I am suitable will come to me. But at the same time one also looks at it as that you have to have enough range as an actor that you will be considered for everything. But it’s also about being at the right place at the right time, opportunity, you know, so all of these things matter, timing. So what I would tell everybody is do not take anything personally. Nobody has anything personal against you. It’s all about timing.”For Ruchi Gujjar, the emotional toll is raw and unfiltered.“Yes. Many times. Rejections hurt more than poverty.”Yet she survived by anchoring herself to purpose rather than glamour.“I survived by remembering why I came — not for glamour, but for respect and self-belief. I cried alone, called my family, prayed, worked part-time jobs, and told myself: Slow success is better than no success.”
The biggest myth: talent alone, or one big break
Across experience levels, all three voices dismantle the same illusion — that one moment can change everything.“The biggest myth is that talent alone is enough and someone will eventually discover you,” says Basu.“Talent is important, but it’s only the entry ticket—it doesn’t guarantee momentum or longevity.””Another myth is the idea of one big break changing everything. Careers are not built on one moment; they’re built on consistency, reinvention, and the ability to evolve with time, platforms, and formats.”Parvin Dabas agrees, calling the “one big break” idea deeply misleading.“Sometimes doing a lot of work, solid work starts getting you noticed and it’s about being there, doing your work, focusing on doing what is there on your plate and doing as good as possible with that rather than worrying about what is not on your plate.”Ruchi Gujjar puts it bluntly:“The biggest lie is — ‘One audition will change your life.’ Truth is: 99 auditions fail before 1 works. There is no magic shortcut. Hard work looks boring, not glamorous.”
Do contacts matter? Yes — but not the way people think
The role of connections is often oversimplified, either demonised or romanticised.Nivedita Basu acknowledges their importance but stresses restraint.“I do believe contacts matter—and I’m grateful that, thanks to my upbringing, humility, and the kindness of God, I do have them. But what’s far more important is knowing when and how to use them.”Overusing contacts, she warns, erodes credibility.“If you use your contacts at the drop of a hat for everything, they stop converting—and your personal equity also goes down.”For outsiders, she believes credibility must come first.“Casting offices, production teams, assistant roles, theatre, short films — contacts work best when they’re backed by trust and performance, not desperation.”Parvin Dabas reinforces the importance of visibility and networking, while returning to craft as the ultimate anchor.“I think contacts and connections, networking is very, very important because a lot of times people just want to work with people they are comfortable with. So I would say it’s very important for newcomers to network, be in the right places, find out about the right auditions and just, do as well as you can in what is there and create opportunities for yourself.”Ruchi Gujjar breaks it down into practical steps outsiders can actually follow — open auditions, theatre, short films, politeness, consistency.“Contacts help — but talent + patience lasts longer. Outsiders can build contacts by: Attending open auditions, joining theatre groups, doing short films and ads, being polite and professional, showing up regularly. Slowly people start remembering your face.”
Destiny, timing, and knowing when to flow
Perhaps the most uncomfortable truth is that effort alone doesn’t guarantee outcomes.Nivedita Basu speaks candidly about destiny and timing.“You can have the right talent, the right energy, and the right intent, but if the timing isn’t aligned, nothing moves. And sometimes, when destiny is working in your favour, even a tukka—a fluke—fits perfectly. That’s the truth.”She compares resistance to swimming against a current.“I’ve seen people struggle because they’re swimming against the wave. When the current is flowing one way, and you insist on going the other, the journey becomes exhausting—and sometimes, you don’t reach the shore. When things are aligned and you go with the flow, you reach there far more smoothly.”Parvin Dabas mirrors this belief, emphasizing opportunity and placement alongside preparation.”One needs to be seen and out there. But at the end of the day, your skill will matter the most, because I think the people who last in this industry for the long time are those are the ones with actual talent. And if you have talent, I think, you know, you will always be noticed everywhere you go. That is, I would say the main thing is working hard on your actual craft, the actual craft of acting.”
Starting from zero: what actually works
When asked what they would do if they had to begin again with no contacts, all three offer grounded, actionable advice.Basu would first choose one clear lane, then place herself where the work happens, and finally accept the journey’s length.“First, I would choose one clear lane—acting, direction, writing, or production—and commit to it fully instead of trying to do everything at once. Second, I would place myself where the work is actually happening—on sets, in workshops, assisting, creating, being physically present in the ecosystem rather than waiting for validation. Third, I would accept that this is a long journey. I would stay alert to timing, keep evolving, and understand when to push and when to flow. Because this industry doesn’t reward force—it rewards awareness, resilience, and alignment.”Parvin Dabas would focus on physical discipline, constant rehearsal, observation, and community — gyms, film schools, and spaces where the industry gathers.”If I had to start from zero today, with no context, my first three moves would be keep going to the gym, go to a good gym where people from the industry work out in the day, always be rehearsing, practicing, shoot yourself to see how you are and analyze it, and again in the evening go to where people hang out, but also I would say join a film school or something or a film class where other people are auditioning, so you are always abreast of things that are happening.”Ruchi Gujjar’s roadmap is stripped of ego.“Learn acting properly (theatre/workshops/online classes). Move to Mumbai or a casting city and register with casting agencies. Do ANY honest acting work— ads, short films, background roles — and build experience No ego. Only learning.”Her closing message captures the outsider spirit in its purest form. Final message from a village girl: “I may not have a godfather, but I have courage. I may come from a small town, but my dreams are big. If I fall 100 times, I will stand 101 times.”
The truth about getting into Bollywood
There is no single entry point into Bollywood — only endurance, awareness, and the ability to stay standing long enough for timing to meet preparation. As these voices reveal, the industry doesn’t reward noise, shortcuts, or entitlement. It rewards those who understand the system, respect the process, and keep moving — even when nothing seems to move back.In Bollywood, getting in is not the victory. Staying in is. Go to Source
